by Gene Hollis
is emotionally independent and does what she feels is best, regardless of
accepted operating procedure.
Id breaking a few rules along the way means advancing her
objectives, thatís not a problem for her.
She needs the freedom to make her own choices.
Give her time, space and autonomy to do what needs to be done, as
that energizes her.
Restrictions, on the other hand, frustrate her.
Her need for material and financial security is about average.
What this means is, she works to take care of her needs and those
of her family, but is not so driven that she make security her sole focus.
A Pleasant, harmonious environment is probably her first choice,
but she can deal with a fair amount of conflict.
The main point is, it shouldnít continue for too long.
strong orientation towards grounded common sense and reason make her a
By creating structure and order, she provides a solid foundation
on which to build.
When unexpected events force last minute changes, Rahda is able
to make the necessary adjustments without undue stress.
Whatever annoyance she experiences at having to switch plans soon
fades and she moves on to more profitable activities. A reasonable
amount of optimism allows her to bounce back when things go wrong.
When bad things happen she is able to keep a positive mental
outlook and remember that tomorrow is likely a better day.
values honesty and integrity in others and makes an effort to give as
good as she gets.
Her sense of honor means more to her than monetary rewards.
With strong self-esteem, she doesnít allow others to set
standards for her.
She sets and lives up to her own expectations.
Even when feeling challenged and out of her depth, Rahda is no
about to accept defeat, but strives to learn from the experience.
Am adequate level of self-confidence helps her survive the ups
and downs of day-to-day life.
Her sense of personal pride is strong enough that she can give
herself pats on the back when she thinks she deserves them.
Having the strength of her convictions and enough will power to
see her through, she is she is also flexible enough to change her plans
if she doesnít achieve the kinds of results she is looking for.
something of a collector, the items she amasses may not have much
intrinsic value of their own.
Itís just that, once something is hers, she simply enjoys
holding onto it too much to let it go.
The same is true of ideas, relationships, and anything else in
A strong hint of perfectionism in her nature demands constant
editing and reediting before Rahda finds the results acceptable.
There are times when her efforts at correcting something actually
make things worse rather than better, but she feels compelled to keep on
honing the results of her work.
On the whole, she doesnít seem to suffer overly from internal
She does her best to stay on an even keel and not become too
anxious in response to stressors.
Whether or not she is successful in maintaining her emotional
equilibrium depends very much on the situation.
Slightly reserved at first, she is inclined to test the waters,
one toe at a time, before rushing ahead.
When she is sure of herself she is more comfortable venturing in
to new areas.
Levelheaded in most circumstances, when the pressure is in, she
canít always restrain herself from expressing her feelings.
Particularly in highly charged emotional situations, her control
On those occasions, you can expect her to regain her composure
nimble thinker with rapid comprehension, she soaks up impressions from
Perhaps this is why she needs more space than the average person,
to allow for a free flow if information through her intuitive processes.
When standard methods are not working for her, Rahda uses her
imagination to invent more effective ways of dealing with problems.
She is willing to consider various options and alternatives.
She prefers to maintain a conventional status quo and takes time
to investigate innovative ideas before accepting them. When a concept
seems to be founded in logic and common sense, she is open minded enough
to give it a chance.
By and large she accepts things the way they were done in the
past and probably will not expend very much energy on creating brand new
methods of operating.
same on the inside as out, se doesnít try to hide her motive or
She is up-front and sincere in word and action.
Recognizing the need for flexibility and a joke now and then she
uses her sense of humor to defuse difficult situations.
Looking for the lighter side helps keep everyone involved from
taking themselves too seriously.
She has a high need for privacy and keeps her own counsel.
She doesnít share private information with anyone she is not
certain of and knows she can trust.
Whatever she knows is locked up tightly inside her head and is
not likely to leak out.
She will call on tact and diplomacy unless squeezed into a tight
spot; then you can expect her to say whatís on her mind.
In conversation, she can maneuver around without giving a direct
answer if she feels necessary to equivocate.
However, she would probably rather just say what she thinks when
it does not put her in a defensive position.
seems to have enough stamina and vitality to get by. Given a reasonable
amount of rest and relaxation, she should be ready to do whatever needs
to be accomplished from day to day.
She doesnít always wait for her partner to make the first move
if she is sure her advances will be welcomed.
If she is comfortable with the other person, she is willing to
take some risks and make an advance.
If she is rejected, it will be along time before she will try
amiable manner creates a pleasant social climate.
Whether she is the host or not, she will probably act like it,
paying attention to everyone at a gathering and ensuring that her needs
are cared for.
When it comes to sharing and giving, she gives when she feels she
wants to, but doesnít feel guilty when she doesnít.
She knows when to turn off the supply.
Discreet and more or less conservative in how she displays her
own feelings, she finds it hard to be really relaxed around very
Somewhat sensitive, when she is in the receiving end of negative
feedback, it may sting at first.
After licking her wounds, though, she analyzes what was said and
tries to grow from the experience.
While she is happy to have the approval of the people she deals
with on a daily basis, she is no dependent upon it.
She believes she is worth caring about her own merits, and
doesnít rely on the opinions of others.
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